Kimberly Roberts, 54, left, and Brenda Moore, 58, make a list of things to purchase for a baby shower. Before she got sick, Moore worked at a nursing home, and she said she knows how little attention each resident receives because the staff have to care for many patients at once. That is one of the reasons why she prefers to stay at home, receiving a personal care aide’s help, Moore said. Yehyun Kim / CT Mirror